For the love of wood


An introduction to wooden toys (part 1)

Grimm’s, Grapat, Ostheimer, Black’s, Peepul, Lanka Kade, Sum Blox

The United Kingdom lost its roots with Wooden toy making during the plastic boom.  The General public was told plastic was better and more educational if a toy ‘did’ something.  This is changing a lot as more and more people look into wooden toys for both enviromental reasons and for educational theories such as the Waldorf/Steiner movement.  This sometimes means, as consumers, we don’t always know what to expect, especially with toys that are not only handmade but using plant based natural oils and finishes.

Wood is a natural and living substance. It can be easy to forget this when we are presented with packaged, shaped and brightly coloured toys. It is because of this that no two wooden toys will be identical, the wood’s  structure and fibres are different across species and even within the same tree. This means each item is truly unique whether handmade or machine made.


What’s this mark?

The most common wood markings are knots.  Thes are created as a tree with branches grows larger and the base of the branch becomes part of the tree. Knots come in all shapes and sizes and each knot tells the story of how that tree grew.

Some knots are purely aesthetic, they are just as solid as the surrounding timber, other knots can be loose and sometimes the wood can develop a hole where the knot has dried out. By the time timber is ready to shape into toys or furniture any changes in the wood have stabilised and knots that affect the structure of a product can be eliminated. Any that are left should be purely a visual reminder of the life of the tree that provided it.

Tiny knot in a Grimm’s rainbow



Of the countless markings that can be seen in wood, my personal favourite is spalting.  Spalted timber is in very high demand in furniture and musical instrument making due to the uniqueness, beauty and rarity of such markings.  Spalting is actually created by a fungus in the tree when it was living, but don’t worry it isn’t harmful.

Spalted Lime Wood

A second favourite is the mineral streak.  You guessed it, this is a line in the wood created as the tree absorbs and deposits minerals from the soil.  These lines run straight along the grain and can be dark and striking or very subtle. These are more common in lighter coloured woods especially in Birch, Maple and Lime.

Lanka Kade Rubberwood featuing mineral lines.


Even if the above are not present the grain of any wooden toy will vary.  The age of the tree and the section of the wood the toy was cut from will produce different grain patterns.  Each tree species has it’s own grain pattern and, like snowflakes or fingerprints, every pattern is unique.

center wood from lime

Hand made toys although all made of wood come in a variety of styles and variations.  To love or not to love?

Beech wood common markings
Ostheimer Squirel
Spalted Lime Wood

Children’s Christmas for £50

Children’s Christmas for £50

Okay, so I wrote a post about the things I would love to buy my daughter following ‘something they want, something they need, something to wear, and something to read’ in the future. I loved picking out all the beautiful dream gifts.

The thing is: we are broke. So broke! I chose to be a stay at home parent, and I wasn’t even good with money when we did have it.

Something I love about Yes Bebe is that there really are lots of great choices for any budget. So I thought I would redo my list with a more realistic £50 budget (I’m including the 10% discount shared on the Facebook group. Also I went over budget a little bit. Did I mention that I’m bad with money?). I’m still completely stoked about these choices!

1 Years Old:

£50 budget want need wear read

WANT: Lanka Kade small rainbow ark and characters – £34.95. Are you kidding me? What an absolute steal. So bright and lovely and full of animals for a little person to explore for years to come

NEED: Grimms small rainbow – £11.95. My daughter has had this since she was under a year old and it has always drawn her attention, from persistently dismantling it as a baby to looking at the colours and making simple arrangements with it now that she is 19 months. Personally, I prefer this to the six piece as I think the thinner wood handles more nicely (NB the packaging warns this is a choking hazard for under 3s)

WEAR: VillerValla anti slip socks – £4.95. Cute little sockos with anti slip to help with first wibbly walking

READ: Snow – £3.99. Whether there is or isn’t snow at Christmas, we can talk all about it together

TOTAL – £55.84 – Less 10% = £50.26

Two Years Old:

£50 budget want need wear read

WANT: BigJigs Carpenter’s Belt – £15.49. What baby wouldn’t love to run amok with a tiny hammer? And a tool belt to wear. I love everything about this. The little nuts and bolts are a great way to perfect a fine motor screwing action as well

NEED: Tegu Travel Pals Kitty – £15.30. Great to take out and about and keep little hands busy, as well as starting to understand how magnets work

WEAR: Smafolk mittens – £19.96. To keep her little hands cosy and cute

READ: Rosa rides her scooter – £4.99. A fun book to look at together and start to talk about road safety

TOTAL: £55.74 – Less 10% = £50.17

Three Years Old:

£50 budget want need wear read

WANT: Janod Doctor’s Suitcase – £26.80. So much fun for role play, as well as building empathy. The bag looks so beautifully made as well.

NEED: Smallfoot Wobbly Tower – £3.49. A lovely travel pack which can also work on turn taking and balance skills

WEAR: Maxomorra playsuit sunflower – £18.90. These playsuits are so beautiful. Getting one in Sunflowers in a year is clearly a pipe dream, but this is a wish list after all

READ: Cook it! – £4.99. A sweet book full of details about cooking, which will be a lovely way to embed information, as in the heat of the kitchen she’s usually too distracted by pinging the empty toaster rack down

TOTAL: £54.18 – Less 10% = £48.76

(I’m assuming the discount can still be applied to imaginary Maxomorra)

Four Years Old:

£50 budget want need wear read

WANT: Grapat Tomtens – £31.90. This is such a gorgeous set. Grapat is so wonderfully made and there is a little bit of everything here, from cute characters to little trees, mushrooms, coins, fire and honeycombs, which makes it really versatile for creative play

NEED: Okonorm watercolour paint – £6.12. A sweet little palette for a budding artist to practise with

WEAR: Maxomorra unicorn dreams tube scarf – £9.90. A beautiful and hassle free scarf for keeping the chill out

READ: Dinosaurs – £5.99. A perfect amount of detail about each dinosaur along with cool pictures

TOTAL – £53.91 – Less 10% = £48.52

Five Years Old:

£50 budget want need wear read

WANT: Ambrosius mermaid doll – £14.95. What a sweet, magical little friend to carry around and confide in

NEED: Orchard Toys What a Performance! £15.95. Christmas family fun which builds on so many creative skills

WEAR: Little Green Radicals sherpa hat – £18.00. Adorable, snuggly goodness

READ: The Emperor’s New Clothes – £5.99. An important message to discuss in this story, and the flaps to lift will add extra interest

TOTAL: £54.89 – Less 10% = £49.40

Six Years Old:

£50 budget want need wear read

WANT: Haba Terra Carving set: £26.52. How cool is this? I can set her to work whittling us a fleet of toy animals, look out for our store (launching 2022)!

NEED: BambooCUP for kids – £11.95. Her own special cup for drinks on the go

WEAR: Slugs & Snails tights – £12.99. Aren’t these adorable? They will look amazing with big warm boots too

READ: Never Ever – £5.99. A lovely reminder that life can be more exciting than it seems

TOTAL: £57.45 – Less 10% = £51.70. Close enough!


How about you? Do you have any budget superhero present picks to share? How else do you save money at Christmas? Any tips gratefully received!

Dreaming of a Yes Bebe Christmas…

I’ve done a lot of Christmas shopping already – from Yes Bebe – of stocking fillers and odds and ends that will add up to make Christmas for my three boys. We don’t buy them individual presents, as they have ample grandparents  (two sets on each side), aunts and uncles (I have 6 siblings) who buy for them as indivuduals. We look to get greater value by buying toys that can be used in different ways at different developmental stages and won’t be outgrown soon, meaning we can continue to build on our collection year-on-year instead of simply replacing outgrown toys. This means lots of lovely open-ended wooden toys – rainbows and building blocks and animals – oh my!

Being Pagan, we begin our Yuletide celebrations on solstice morning, and celebrate 12 days of Yule. To celebrate the solstice we will bring greenery into the house – holly and ivy to represent the male and female and misteltoe for fertility, the evergreen tree to represent the new life of the coming Spring – and make a wreath to represent the cyclical nature of the year.

On solstice morning the children wake up to a gift, with a further small gift to follow on each of the 12 days of Yule, including something larger and a small stocking on the 25th to tie in with Christmas tradition. Last year I set up a story sack for each day; this year I am hoping to begin Yule with a stone circle scene with Ocamora teniques and Ambrosius fairies, with a Grimms fire in the centre, then something like hang a wrapped Holztiger animal for the 5 year olds and a Lanka Kade toy for the 18 month old on the tree to open each morning. I also have a few story sacks planned – I’ll write another post about those!

lanka kade jigsaw christmas

I hope to give them each a beautiful Lanka Kade jigsaw:

Coby: Lanka Kade 1-10 dinosaur jigsaw

Conall: Lanka Kade a-z dragon jigsaw

Harris: Lanka Kade 1-25 crocodile jigsaw

IF we did advent, I would have bought one of these 25 piece jigsaws for each of the twins and given them a numbered piece each morning, with the final piece on the 25th.

My Dream Yuletide

There are so many goodies on the Yes Bebe website that I would love to bundle together for the kids. If I were to somehow come into some extra cash between now and December, here’s what I would buy:

For the 18 month old…

dream christmas 18 month old

We have so many lovely toy cars which Coby loves to push around the house. I would love to extend this play with:

Way to Play King of the Road – or in fact, any of the Way to Play roads.

A Grimms Bridge – natural or rainbow… or both…

The Lubulona Lubu Town Winterberg Maxi would be ideal for building cityscapes (recommended for 3+ years but how gorgeous???). Alternatively, some Grapat houses and Nins would work to build a townscape.

Grimms 6 coloured cars – I know I said we have plenty of cars, but come on!

For 5 year old twin: Conall

dream christmas 5 years old

Conall loves all things fantasy: castles, dragons, knights, fairies, wizards and witches… He also LOVES building with blocks.

Hape medieval quest marble run – its a castle AND a marble run!

Ostheimer Dragon and Cave – he would tell me so many stories about this…

Conall is also austistic and has certain sensory needs. He loves our Creatimber but often has to fight his brothers for it. I’d love to buy him his own Spectra Swing to rock on. I would also love to buy him a Magic Wood Marble Tree as I believe the sound would soothe him.

For 5 year old twin: Harris

dream christmas 5 year old

Harris is currently viking and monster obsessed, and enjoys drawing. He is also showing a genuine interest in numbers.

Magic wood viking boat and vikings would be an obvious place to start!

Although not on his radar, I’d love to buy Harris some TicToys Binabo as I think he will love the creativity of this!

And as he loves to draw, I think these gorgeous Crayon Rocks might spark his imagination…

Sumblox have been on my list for ages, but as Harris is actually interested now I finally have an excuse to invest!

A Want-Need-Wear-Read Christmas

Something they want, something they need, something to wear, and something to read

Christmas (especially with children) can mean an overwhelming amount of presents. I love the increasingly popular concept of giving only four; something they want, something they need, something to wear, and something to read.

It means that I will have to think carefully about what will be the most meaningful gift to my daughter at that time, instead of reflexively buying things because it’s Christmas.

Fewer presents frees up so much of the day to focus on other traditions, each other, and to really appreciate each gift.

The trouble is: I love my baby so much! And I love toys! And how can I not give her all of the toys??

I’m trying to rein myself in by planning ahead. I promise myself that I will give her all of the toys. Just not at this one Christmas.

So here follows my fantasy list of something to want, something to need, something to wear, and something to read for years to come.

One Year Old:

christmas want need wear read 1

WANT: Grimms 1001 Nights – the most beautiful, chunky, perfectly formed blocks in existence. So easy for little hands to grasp and build something which looks significant

NEED: The Wee’Un – a Pikler triangle to help babies explore their growing mobility; be it standing, climbing, or crawling underneath

WEAR: Piccalilly Hooded Playsuit – to keep my sweet adventurer snug and snugglable

READ: Dear Zoo – the perfect first book with so much to offer: lifting flaps for motor skills, and learning animal names, noises and characteristics, and colours

Two Years Old:

christmas want need wear read 2

WANT: Holztiger Dolls House! It’s so lovely! And so open ended she could basically fall clean through it. It could be used as anything from a stable to a garage as my baby’s imagination and interests develop

NEED: Utukutu Spectra wooden swing – fun for rocking and swinging when she’s full of energy, or can be tipped on its side and used as a shop counter for role play

WEAR: Sarah’s Silks playsilk in Sea – a lovely tactile playsilk which she can wrap herself in like Princess Elsa’s dress, wear as a veil, or use as water in a play scene

READ: My First Book of Woodland Animals – a sweet book to expand on her exploration of nature

Three Years Old:

christmas want need wear read 3

WANT: Way to Play for creating city scenes from the lounge to the garden to the bath

NEED: Grimms 12 piece rainbow. It would be rude not to. For stacking, sorting, and using as tunnels with the Way to Play

WEAR: Gluckskafer Doll’s Carrier – How. Cute. Is. This. Sling. She can take care of her dollies on the go

READ: Montessori Map Work: a lovely first introduction to basic geography

Four Years Old:

christmas want need wear read 4

She’s going to be four years old?? Who is chopping onions in here??

WANT: Hape Quadrilla marble run, for hours of construction and playing. I love the musical add-ons where the marbles hit bells and chime bars on their way

NEED: Sumblox. A simple way for her to experiment with numbers which is practical and playful

WEAR: Maileg crown. I may have to purchase one of these in advance and wear it in secret as part of my self-care

READ: The Complete Book of the Flower Fairies – beautiful pictures and fantasy for us to enjoy together

Five Years Old:

christmas want need wera read 5

WANT: The amazing Ostheimer ship and cabin – for playing pirates, storing animals, and looking beautiful

NEED: Hape piano – a beautiful piano at her height and size would be great for her to experiment with music

WEAR: Blue unicorn mini foldable backpack – encouraging her independence and looking adorbs at the same time

READ: First Encyclopedia of Dinos – the internet is a great resource but I love treasuries like this which can really spark more exploration

Six Years Old:

christmas want need wera read 6

WANT: Grimms Sparkling Mandala Sun – It’s so shiny! Young girls like shiny things, I believe? Love the different scenes these pieces can create, and it will work well with existing blocks to make more fantastic creations

NEED: Bajo keepsake box – a special place for her to keep her treasures

WEAR: Maxomorra one piece – these look amazing at any age, so convenient and comfortable for happy adventures

READ: Three cheers for Women! She will be a woman all too soon, and I hope she’s inspired by her amazing sisterhood


A Sustainable Secret Santa

secret santa claus doll

Ahh the workplace secret santa: that annual event we’re all forced to participate in even though we neither want to buy nor be bought another comedy mug. Rather than spending pennies pointlessly on most likely plastic-wrapped, throwaway items that will end up in the charity shop in a week/year’s time, why not buy something pointedly sustainable instead? Here are a few ideas…

Secret Santa: under £5

Skincare: Unless you know someone really well, soap can be taken the wrong way, but lip balm is always both useful and appreciated! The Organic Essence natural lip balm is universally appealing and a great option for men or women who are stuck in an office OR subject to weather, on a playground for example. (Which also makes it a great option for classroom assistants /nursery leaders /teachers etc…)

Travel: The Funky Soap Travel Tin can be used for so much more than soap, and as it’s made from aluminium it is fully recycleable. To make it look like more, pop in a few wrapped sweets or some fudge from your local sweet shop.

Kitchen: There is no excuse for using clingfilm any more – buy a regular offender an alternative like these vegan food wraps and they’ll never look back. And we would never encourage cheating, but if £5 is really more a guideline than a rule, splash out an extra £1 on a Keep Leaf baggie.

Lunch time: Who doesn’t love bees? This cool bag is waterproof, lightweight and will keep lunch cool until, well, lunchtime. If bees aren’t their thing there are other options – flamingoes, seaside or puffins, Eco Chic have got it all!

Out & About: These gorgeous organic short-handled string bags are deceptively spacious, holding far more than you’d expect but squishing down to nothing in a pocket. A bargain at £5 exactly.

Desk-top fun: Check out Goki’s fab brainteaser puzzles, many of which come in under £5.

Secret Santa: under £10

Garden: Surely no-one with a garden wouldn’t appreciate a bee bomb? Add a jar of local honey and you’ve got a gift everyone will be buzzing over! (Sorry, couldn’t resist!)

Kitchen: In this price range straws are a great option! Bamboo or stainless steel, the choice is yours!

Lunch time: You can’t go wrong with a reusable sandwich pouch, such as those by Planet Wise and Keep Leaf – both have some stunning design options available.

Monbento have some really trendy options available for those who bring leftovers for their lunch. Their biodegradable cutlery is really stylish, while their chopsticks are frankly beautiful!

The Equa 600ml bottle just squeezes in under the £10 mark and offers a great alternative to single use plastic water bottles. There are several lovely designs available; my favourite is Universe.

Secret Santa: under £20

If you’ve got £20 to splash out there are endless possibilities! There are lots of lovely reusable drink options, from water bottles to insulated flasks to juice boxes.

Wooden toys are not just for children, as many of us can attest. How about treating a colleague to a desk-friendly Grimms small rainbow, some grapat mandala pieces  for mindfulness practice or a Goki puzzle 3D?

A hamper (see below) could also come in under £20 if you pick carefully…

Secret Santa: over £20

Why not make a personalised gift hamper? Some ideas could include:

For the lunchbox regular: choose from straws, beeswax wraps, reusable cutlery, sauce pots… monbento are a great place to start!

For the parent: build a fabulous rainbow picnic hamper from the amazing Re-play range – and they are so reasonable you could even manage a small hamper under the £20 mark!

For the commuter: Help them while away the train journey with some brainteaser puzzles from the Goki range, or a Grimms magnetic puzzle for the ultimate in compact open-ended “play”. Add an insulated flask for their mid-journey cuppa and a bar of chocolate as a treat!

International Dot Day – mark-making with your child

Mark-making is your child’s first step towards handwriting and drawing. It’s important for motor skills but also for creativity and imagination – with a pencil in their hand a child is no longer limited to the realms of reality, and anything is possible!

mark-making crayons

Mark-making can begin as soon as your child is able to sit up in a high-chair unaided. Early mark-making ideas include hand-prints using finger paints, encouraging your child to draw in yoghurt on their high-chair tray, and drawing in sand, in a sand pit or on the beach. Mark-making activities can be great sensory opportunities, as a child explores the squidginess of finger paints, the graininess of sand, the scratchiness of chalk on a pavement, the sweep of a paintbrush on an easel, the swoosh of a marker pen on a whiteboard… Try:


  • Using fingerpaints tomake handprints
  • Drawing patterns in yoghurt in your baby’s high chair tray and encouraging them to copy


  • Dot painting, using fingerpaints to create a pattern or pictures – leaves on a tree are always beautiful, or dots on a dalmation, patterns on a butterfly’s wings… you draw the outline and let them fill in the colours
  • Once your toddler has a fist grip they can use crayons or even pens, pencil crayons or paintbrushes, under supervision, to create art.
  • Encourage them to paint both on flat surfaces like the table and upright surfaces – an easel is great, but if you don’t have one, tape paper onto a window or door (if your paints are non-washable tape newspaper underneath first).
  • Chalk pavement drawing is always a hit.
  • Paint splatters can be made by dipping scraps of fabric into paint and throwing them onto a piece of paper on the floor.
  • Screwed up waste-paper can be used for printing.
  • Carve shapes out of halved potatoes to make simple prints (we did this with our preschoolers to tie in with dinosaur and wild animal topics, which they loved!)
  • Blow art is very popular with children who are old enough to understand the importance of not sucking paint through the straw! You can drop poster paints onto paper and blow them outwards, or add watercolour paint to washing-up liquid in a shallow container, blow bubbles then print the image onto paper by laying it on top.


  • Fill a tray with rice or lentils and encourage your child to use a finger to draw letters.
  • Easy-grip pencils are both practical, encouraging them by making it easier to hold the pencil, and exciting, as they are pencils of their vey own.
  • Encourage them to label their art with their own name.
  • Copying simple words to describe their art is also a good way to introduce writing.


Autumn is a great time of year to look to nature for mark-making resources. On the simplest level, you can collect blackberries or elderberries, place them between two pieces of fabric or paper, and squash or even hammer them to make fruit splats.

You can also squash berries with a little water to make paint, which can be painted with brushes or fingers.

Food-based activities are great for both weaning children, as they also encouarage them to explore texture, and “mouthers” of any age, as they can mark-make without worry if any finds its way into their mouths!


Yes Bebe stock a fabulous range of art resources including my favourites, Crayon Rocks!

Gift picks for £5, £10, £25, £50, and £100

Send help! I can’t stop looking at the Yes Bebe website! I’ve been picking out my favourite things within price ranges, and there are absolutely loads for any budget.

I’m including the Facebook discount, because I’m assuming nobody would miss out on that blessing. So here’s what I’d get for:

Gift picks for £5ish

gift picks £5

  • Lanka Kade puzzle: these are lovely and chunky and an absolute steal (like all Lanka Kade) – my 19 month old has a few Lanka Kade puzzles and never gets tired of them
  • Planet Wise snack bag: who doesn’t need more beautiful bags? Good for snacks, stationery, makeup, soap, sanitary biz, just keeping some things clean and in the right place in your giant handbag…
  • Le Toy Van rocket! Zoom to the moon! A renowned crowd pleaser
  • Bamboo straws: fun for any age! Novel if you like novelty, virtuous if you don’t want your rubbish stuck in a hapless turtle’s orifices #stopsucking
  • Lamazuna Oriculi: an ear wax scooper? Yes and yes!
  • Goki finger puppets: look at that impudent wolf in Grandma’s bonnet!
  • Wobbly Tower: travel sized stacking fun for all the family
  • Little Bug Bingo: Orchard Toys sell the best games and puzzles! What little person doesn’t love bugs?
  • Crayon Rocks! These come in a little bag as all great treasures must, and help develop a proper pincer grip to build writing skills
  • Veggie brush: it’s useful and it looks good, so it’s a great present for any age in my book
  • Lanka Kade tractor: again, my little girl has this and it’s one of her most reached for toys 10/10 would buy several more
  • Little Violet’s hand sanitiser: a cool gift for anybody currently looking after children or animals, or who just likes to keep their hands camera-ready
  • Foldable shopper! You gotta have a foldable shopper! Why not get a nice looking one? This will make your money back in 5ps saved in no time
  • Goki frog catching game: A bright, fun, active present. Children will thank you! Parents will admire you!
  • Knitting 4 Nancy: French knitting! What a blast from the past! Apparently you can make the knit into pretty flowers and things which I certainly never got round to as a callow youth
  • Cupcake Trinket Box: a sweet home for special things

Gift picks for £10ish

gift picks £10

Gift picks for £25ish

gift picks £25

  • Goki Nature train: It’s chunky, it’s choo-ey, it’s super playable with
  • Bajo Mendelsons: iconic little stacky people to keep hands and minds busy
  • Doctor’s suitcase: listen to your heart and gift this winner
  • Figure 8 railway: a perfect introduction to the joys of miniature railways
  • Monbento lunch box: what a cool gift, for an adult or a young person rocking their own packup
  • Play n Pack Jungle: Love this! A backpack full of fun including a mini roll of Playpa!
  • Playhouse animal hospital: you could collect a whole high street of these little play scenes
  • Educo bees: Bees! Colour sort the little cuties and/or display them looking fine
  • Hape checkout: beep! Beep! Beep! Is that cash or card? Little folk love running the register
  • Sensopath balance: build your core with these bonkers wooden stationary balance flip flops.
  • Mermaid doll: isn’t her colouring perfect for a mystical sea lady?
  • Fishing game: if you know somebody without a fishing game, for goodness’ sake get them a fishing game
  • Palos: scrumptious Grapat sticks with so many uses. I intend to use them for clutching in my hands and laughing “AT LAST!”, but they could also be trees, people, ice creams, counters…
  • Terra carving set: I think this is my top pick. What youngster would not want a blade and a whittling blank?
  • Nanoemo: these look like such an engaging way to connect together different emotions
  • Patisserie set: for the classiest tiny tea parties

Gift picks for £50ish

gift picks £50

  • Pirate ship: what a beauty, for hours of fun on the seven seas
  • Grimms cars: fabulously shaped and coloured, tactile little autos
  • Rollerby Klingeling: what a lovely first ball track with just enough going on to keep little folk hooked
  • Fagus tractor: a big beautiful wooden tractor. What is not to love?
  • Perpetual calendar: lovely visual way to mark time for the whole family
  • Geometrics house: a modern doll’s house which can be endlessly reconfigured
  • Grimms mobile home: a beautiful place for little figures to inhabit, plus it doubles as a travel toy since it packs away neatly
  • Tegu: a magnetic blocks set with enough pieces to spark hours of building and experimenting
  • Quadrilla roundabout: have you seen the marbles go on the whirly roundy bit? This thing is mesmerising
  • Grimms rainbow: I’ve got a serious crush on the pastel 12 piece at the moment
  • Luggy: such a super stylish way for little folk to carry their treasures
  • Teniques: gorgeous calming stacking loveliness
  • Holdie House: is it okay to use this as a handbag in your thirties?
  • Construction trucks: brum brum! These have the edge on wooden toys for hitting the garden or bath, and still good for the planet
  • Bird tree: a beautiful home for your beautiful wooden birds
  • Castle: a reconfigurable days-of-yore setpiece in gorgeous Gluckskafer colours

Gift picks for £100ish

gift picks £100

  • Quadrilla: mega ballrun fun for hours of whizzing marbles
  • Country play kitchen: is it okay to be jealous of children for having a nicer kitchen than me?
  • Tegu: what can’t you make with this many Tegu pieces?
  • DIY dream house: how gorgeous is this? It has little empty frames which you can put your own artwork in!
  • Annual Ring: how much gravitas is this beaut rocking? What a great present to enjoy all year
  • Balance board: wibble wobble fun for all the family
  • 1001 Nights: we’ve had this for a while, and I only fall more deeply in love with it as time goes on
  • Fairy Tale cottage: what a perfect mystical home for any figurines to play out stories in
  • Everearth Ark: a majestic vessel complete with lovely animals
  • Mosaic peacock: beautiful colours and I love a multi purpose puzzle block situation
  • Lanka Kade farm: farm animals and a home to keep them. And a tractor! Perfection
  • Market stall: isn’t this a beauty? What a magnificent place to practise the fundamentals of commerce
  • Sumblox: blow them away with the awesome power of tangible mathematics
  • Pirates Island: what a cool set piece! I can see pirates swashbuckling, I can see dinosaurs roaring, I can see heroic rescues…
  • Spectra: why not get them a balance board, swing, market stall, hammock all in one?
  • Garbage tipper truck: the little bins slot on the back and you can tip them up! My refuse collection aficionado would be blown away by this

What did I overlook?? I had such long long lists, it was hard narrowing down to just these. What are your winning presents this year?


Advent Calendar Ideas

An advent calendar is my opening gambit to BLOW my baby’s MIND this Christmas. I’m thinking of going all in on the ceremony and lighting a candle every morning, reading some kind of Winter themed poem or talking about something I’m grateful for that day, and then opening the advent box for the day. But enough about my nonplussed nearly two year old…

What’s going in our advent calendars?

Many of us might be planning to give wood, and some go as far as making story sacks for the run-up to Christmas…

Here are some of my ideas for themed advent calendars; basically a plan to consolidate efforts into just a few purchases which can be split across the calendar. I love the idea of the theme coming together over a period of days, and the suspense about what the next piece will add.

Marbles (and a ball run for Christmas?), Sumblox corresponding to date, Grimms rainbow forest, Goki tree slices, Goki stone puzzle, Grapat Tomtens (or Mandala pieces), Threading game and buttons/bobbins/beads, Bigjigs trackside accessories (and a train set for Christmas?), Magic Wood dollhouse furniture, Janod mini stories, Bigjigs dinosaur templates, Tegu, Little wooden ladybirds, Dinosaur magnetic jigsaw, Grapat Winter, Lanka Kade puzzles

Or the calendar could be built around a theme (tree decorations, wooden animals, decorative figures for a seasonal display, beauty treats, books or poems), or just a mix of different items.

Grimms bearded dwarves, Lanka Kade animals, Maileg tree ornament, Gluckskafer duck, Haba rollicking rollers, Grimms decorative figure, Holztiger robin, Organic Essence lip balm, Lanka Kade fire engine, Ambrosius mistletoe girl, Pick n Mix candle, Eric and Albert’s Crafts reindeer, Grimms branch, Gerda Muller – Seasons collection, Lanka Kade spinosaurus, Ostheimer shepherd kneeling

I’m leaning towards an activity advent calendar, which might include a mix of seasonal trips, festive activities, and acts of kindness. Some of these could be…

Choose and decorate tree, Make Christmas Cards, Enact Christmas/seasonal stories, Nature forage/collect pine cones, St Nicholas’ Day on 6th December (find a gift hidden in shoe), Choose new present or old toys for charity of choice, Bake gingerbread, Make festive play dough, Visit a Christmas market, Make nature gift – insect hotel/bird food, Make hot chocolate sticks for gifts, Winter crafts, Make Christmas crackers, All add a memory to keepsake box – add/review annually, Christmas bath by candlelight, Go carol singing

Maileg tree ornament, Wee Can Too finger paint for cards and wrapping paper, Lanka Kade nativity, Respiin medium basket for displaying nature finds, Ambrosius Saint Nicholas, Janod doctor’s suitcase for charity donation, Janod pastry set for baking, Okonorm soft modelling clay to make festive sensory dough, Olli Ella Luggy to take to the market, Haba assembly kit – insect hotel, Love Cocoa dark chocolate for making hot chocolate sticks as gifts, Re-cycle Me Winter, Friendly travel soaps for Christmas cracker fillers, Bajo pony keepsake box for adding memories from the year, Tinti bath ball,    Qwetch insulated flask

I love hearing about people’s Christmas plans! Do you have any great advent ideas cooking? Please let me know!

Meet Your New Christmas Holiday Tradition!

holiday tradition Jolabokaflod


Everyone has their family traditions during the Christmas holiday season. Any of these sound familiar, past or present? Not all mine.

  • Getting a tree together and decorating it?
  • Baking mince pies?
  • A Christmas day walk after or before the main Christmas feast?
  • Watching Top of the Pops countdown? Snigger. How retro.
  • Watching the Queen’s speech?
  • Morning church service?
  • A must-see annual viewing of a special film?
  • Present giving before the Christmas feast?
  • Present giving after the Christmas feast?
  • Present giving on Christmas eve?
  • Snack left for Santa and Rudolph?
  • Christmas stocking?
  • A little nap after the feast?

The list can be endless. Sometimes you don’t even realise a tradition is hidden away amongst the festivities.

And as we get older and have our own families we become nostalgic and pass these traditions on (or even get rid of them because we hated it as a child) and gain another few along the way. Any of these ring true? Not all mine.

  • New Pyjamas and socks (because we haven’t got enough already)?
  • Xmas eve box full of treats?
  • Charity donation or visiting someone who might be lonely this holiday?
  • Secret Santa?
  • Celebration/seasonal display?

And then there are those extra-extra special traditions that you just can’t replicate and are close to your heart.

Eating my grandpa’s turkey sandwiches late on Christmas day when you start to get hungry again after the feast (because it happens). Squeezed in between the layers of bread are roasties, stuffing, vegetables, dripping and all. A death-wish right there, but so amazing and indulgent. A last nod to Christmas day. I still find it hard to imitate those wicked flavours.

Just when you think you can’t have any more amazingness over the Christmas holidays, someone waves that hygge* wand over you and you discover a new tradition!

What sorcery is this you speak of?

The concept is simple. Picture this.

It’s Christmas Eve. You have been gifted a new book from your family (smell those crisp pages). Donning your Christmas pyjamas and socks, you wrap yourself in a blanket. The fire is lit, candles out and the tree lights are twinkling. With a mug of hot cocoa you spend the rest of the evening reading.

“Oh, for a nook and a storybook. With tales both new and old. For a jolly good book whereon to look. Is better to me than gold.” Old English Song.

Christmas Eve is the main gift giving day in Iceland. After the exchange of presents have finished they lose themselves in a book. Everyone grabs a cup of hot chocolate (eh hem, or an alcoholic beverage) and cozies up to spend the rest of the evening reading. And this is exactly how Icelandic people celebrate each year. The most book buying people in the world enjoy a bit of Hygge* time with their new book and family. In the words of Pop Larkin from The Darling Buds of May – Perfic.

This tradition started around 1944 (World War 2) when paper was one of the few things not rationed in Iceland and there was low tax on paper imports. Today, while the rest of the world celebrate World Book day in Spring (Next year – Tuesday 23rd April 2019), Icelanders have their equivalent between October and November and start purchasing books for Christmas Eve. A book boom of the year. This tradition is known as Jolabokaflod, which translates roughly to “Christmas book flood” in English.  A study conducted by Bifrost University in 2013 found that half the country’s population read at least eight books a year.

In a world slave to technology, I cannot think of a better way to spend the evening. My dad always had a tradition of reading his new gifted book on Christmas day, while everyone was busy tidying in the kitchen or sat in front of the box. He always looked so happy and content. Lost to the world. So, why not bring it forward a day? There’s nothing worth watching on the TV these days on the night before is there? Snigger typical British television.

If this sounds like an ideal way to spend Christmas Eve with your family, here’s a little bit of Yes Bebe inspiration for you all.

Drink up

Something to keep your hot cocoa warm or your ‘naughty-but-nice’ cold? Try U Konserve insulated coffee cups and tumblers with helpful drinking lids. They come in a variety of colours. Why not assign a colour for each family member?


Happy reading

Yes Bebe stock a carefully considered range of books. For example, themed books on Dinosaurs, Seasons, Sea life, Baby milestones, Inspiring women of history, First books, Classic picture books and interactive fairy tale books.

Many of these books can be used in conjunction with their toy section and you could create your own story sacks to accompany them.

Waldorf and Inspiring play books are also available for parents.


* Hygge (pronounced hue-guh) is a Danish word used when acknowledging a feeling or moment, whether alone or with friends, at home or out, ordinary or extraordinary as cosy, charming or special. Look it up. It’s now become a widespread thing. Down with the kids so to speak.


Hold Them Close

Hold Them Close – Big Feelings

Shockingly, there were 6,188 suicides in the UK in 2015. Men aged between 40-44 had the highest rate of suicides and female suicides were recorded as the highest in a decade in England. Male suicides are around 3 times higher than female in the UK (statistics from Samaritans 2017 report). Horrifyingly, 1 in 10 children have a clinically diagnosable mental health condition (Children’s Society, 2008).

Grapat Nins of the Forest big feelings

As a mum, the mental health and wellbeing of my little one, terrifies me. It feels like an invisible danger that could take hold of our little ones and steal them away, without us knowing. It’s a disease that we can’t see, we can only feel the impact that it has upon the ones we love. Mental health conditions do not discriminate, they can affect any one of us. Some people may be genetically predisposed or circumstances in life can impact on our mental health, but it is a personal struggle, unique to the individual. However, it doesn’t need to be a journey that someone travels alone – family, friends, health professionals and organisations can all be sources of support. It’s important we act now to help our children to recognise how they are feeling, learn coping mechanisms and know how to access support.


When teaching in the early years, before having my little one, three things were incredibly important to me to develop in my classroom. Firstly, a safe and secure environment where children felt comfortable to share their feelings and confident that they would be heard and listened to. Good modelling by adults within the setting to help children to understand emotions and develop strategies to overcome challenges. Secondly, the language to be able to express themselves – emotional literacy – to be able to recognise and say how they are feeling. Opportunity to role play situations and solutions, play feelings games, experiment with different expressions in a safe environment. Lastly, helping to develop strategies to be able to support children to help themselves when feelings get too big and to ensure children know who they can turn to for support when they feel overwhelmed.

big feelinsg playing with nins

Now a Mum to my almost two year old, my three important beliefs as a teacher are exactly what I do at home. A loving, sharing and caring environment where the language of emotions is used and encouraged and together we develop strategies to help boost our mental health and our ability to cope with challenges faced.


So, as parents, guardians, family and friends what can you do to help support the mental health of the children you love?


  • Let your little one know it is OK to show their emotions – yes even the boys! I do think that there is still a divide in what we think is socially acceptable for boys and girls when it comes to emotions – could that have any reflection in the suicide statistics?
  • Give your little one the language to express themselves. Use words to describe emotions and feelings for yourself, them and others.
  • Narrate to help them understand. I can see that you are angry because x took your toy. I can see you are upset…. etc. This emotions puzzle can help.Emotions Learning Puzzle big feelings
  • Calm spot – have a quiet spot where they can go to calm down. I don’t mean the ‘naughty spot’. I mean an area with cushions and blankets and soft toys that they can snuggle with and feel safe.
  • Relaxing toys – toys that support mindfulness. Toys that help role play such as dolls/ figures and houses.

    big feelings
    Hape All Seasons House – Fully Furnished
  • Hugs. Hugs. Then some more hugs! One way to have your baby/ little one close is to use a sling or carrier.lsing baby carrier feelings
  • Show your emotions to help them understand. Children know. Hiding emotions teaches them that they should hide theirs. Now I’m not saying if you are really angry that it’s appropriate to shout and throw things – I’m saying that your little one will know you are angry, so letting them know you’re angry and why (if appropriate) and what you’re going to do to help calm yourself down is teaching them how to cope with anger in future and that it’s OK to feel angry. I remember my Mum crying when our beloved, family cat died and telling me that she was upset because he was part of our family. I understood, I was upset and she taught me it was OK to show how I was feeling.
  • Certain situations can be helped by exploring them before hand through roleplay, stories and games such as the arrival of a new baby and a hospital visit for example.

My New Baby [NEW EXPERIENCES] book big feelings

Get further support from –

  • Samaritans – Call 116 123 – Email
  • Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM) for men – 0800 58 58 58 – they also have a webchat facility
  • Papyrus – for people under 35 – Call 0800 068 41 41 – Text 07786209697
  • Childline – for children and young people under 19 – Call 0800 1111 – the number doesn’t show up on your phone bill
  • The silver Line – for older people – Call 0800 4 70 80 90